Thursday, May 9, 2013

Delilah's Fawkesy Sex Tip of the Week: Know Thyself!

All of this *cough* research *cough* I've done for my stories has had the added benefit of making me something of a Sexpert, and I'd love to bring my knowledge straight to YOU with a sizzling sex tip each week!

If I haven't done it myself, I've probably either watched the live action version (thanks, Internet!) or researched allll the juicy details from someone who has. You're in good hands, my lovelies!

So, let the free sex tips begin!

Since it's our first time, I'll make sure to be gentle...


Fawkesy Ladies Know How They Like It.

Know yourselves, girlfriends.

As RuPaul is fond of saying, "If you don't love yourself, how the heeeell you gonna love somebody else?"

I'd listen to this bitch if I were you. She's like... 11 feet tall.

I challenge you: If you don't love yourself, how the HELL are you gonna get good lovin' from somebody else??

We've come a long way, baby, but in my talks with the women in my life over the years, I've learned something shocking:

Some of them never fly solo, or if they do, they're ashamed to truly explore their bodies!

It's a pretty well known fact at this point that most women cannot achieve orgasm from penetration alone, and that you need a little extra TLC in order to get to the promised land. Whether it's from a vibrator, manual stimulation from your partner, or touching yourself while you ride the bone rollercoaster, you need something extra to get the job done.

I've found, though, that exploring your body, letting go of shame when you're alone and allowing yourself to really play and discover new things about yourself, leads to a much more satisfying (and less frustrating!) time when you're with your partner.

For example, I used to find it hard to orgasm in certain sex positions even when I was touching myself or being touched. Why? Because I'd only masturbated lying on my back, like most women do, and when there was a change of position, I was suddenly at a loss. I had no sexual muscle memory, and it was harder to get there!

Here are my tips for getting to know yourself better:

  • Masturbate in different positions to find what works in each one. Try kneeling doggy style, or sitting up with your thighs spread like you're on top. Have fun and teach your body to cum in each different position. Get used to where you like your hands and how to get them where they're needed!
  • Try a toy! Play with some hands-free vibrators, or a couples vibrator. If you enjoy a sexy vibration, there are options that allow you to play alone, and share the fun later with your partner!
  • Touch your whole body. Each woman is different and has different erogenous zones. Suck on your finger--seriously! Sometimes having something in your mouth makes things more fun. Try pinching and rolling your nipples with one hand while you touch yourself with the other. Try touching your anus. Caress your inner thighs. Find out which parts of you feel oh-so-good and add to the experience. 
  • Don't be shy! Tell your partner what you learned about yourself. If you show them what you like, I guarantee it will spice things up when it's time to get down.
So go forth and masturbate, gals!

The more you know about yourself, the better your sex, the better your partner's self esteem, and the better your love life!



Any sexy questions you'd like discussed in the coming weeks? 

Ask your old pal Delilah via email, or post anonymously in the comments below (or not anonymously if you're totes brave and stuff)!

I'd love to share what I've learned with you and get Fawkesy together!


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Update: I have officially convinced one woman to masturbate tonight.

*blows on smoking vibrator and puts it back into holster.*

My work here is done.

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Relationship Tip: The Secret to Catching YOUR Alpha Male!

If you're like me, you've probably asked this question when reading your favorite romance novel:

"How the HELL are all these Plain Janes landing these rich, hot alpha males?!"

I mean, how realistic is it really?

The only women in REAL life who can attract a sexy alpha are supermodels or celebrities...

Right?

Wrong!

When I was writing The Billionaire's Beck and Call, I thought long and hard about how a regular ol' gal like Isabeau Willcox could be a realistic partner for billionaire CEO Chase Drake.

I examined the romances I loved and the ones that made me roll my eyes, and picked out the common elements, and then looked to real life for examples to back it up.

And you know what I found out?

You don't have to be Heidi Klum to catch an Alpha Male. 

You just have to be AWESOME.

Each of us has the potential to be awesome. We all have strengths and skills and interests that when developed make us so much more attractive than looks alone. When you're at your most awesome, you're at your most beautiful.

And THAT'S what makes you an amazing partner to even the sexiest man!

Okay, Delilah, you say. But I'm not awesome, I'm normal. What now, bitch?

To you, I call bullshit as politely as possible. You are absolutely awesome--you just have to find how YOU express your personal awesomeness.

Awesomeness comes in several flavors. Let's explore a few real-life examples!


1. Be Freakin' Smart

Big brains are awesome, and awesomeness is HOT!
23andme.com

The lady above is Anne Wojcicki, the woman who stole the heart of Google co-founder and billionaire, Sergey Brin.

So what's so awesome about Anne?

She's really freakin' smart. 

Anne is a biotech analyst that co-founded a website called 23andme that provides rapid DNA testing. She also holds degrees from Yale and Stanford.

Pretty damn awesome, if you ask me! 

Isabeau Willcox took this path to awesomeness in The Billionaire's Beck and Call, finding out throughout the series that even though she didn't have formal training, she was whip-smart in business and an asset to the sexy Mr. Drake. 

That head on her shoulders ain't just a hat rack!


2. Be Freakin' Funny

What's the fastest way to a man's heart?  A sharp kitchen knife!

*rimshot*

Thank you, thank you. I'll be here all week.



The lady on super hunk and celebrity alpha male, Eric Bana's arm, is his wife, is none other than Rebecca Gleeson, an Australian publicist and Regular Jane.

So why is she awesome enough to see this every morning when she wakes up? 


He insists on wearing the greaves to bed...
She's freakin' funny.

Eric said that Rebecca's been making him laugh for 15 years. And not just giggling, either, but some serious, side-stitch-inducing laughter. Girlfriend means business.

Got to love someone who's incredibly fun to be around, day in and day out. A great sense of humor is a gift, and it definitely makes you glow with inner sex appeal.

I loved writing Lucy Willcox in Bound to Him: The Billionaire's Beck and Call, Book 2 because she's a total goofball and a little spitfire to boot. You never know what's going to come out of Lucy's mouth, a trait which definitely caught billionaire Maxwell Pierce's eye in the series.

Laugh and the world wants to bone you!


3.  Be Freakin' Involved



Being involved in a charitable cause and helping mankind isn't just good, it's AWESOME! A big heart is sexy indeed, as is a gal who's passionate and takes initiative to make the world a better place.

Meet Flavia Sampaio, long-term girlfriend of the richest man in Brazil, Eike Batista.

So why Flavia? Okay, sure, she's gorgeous, but I'm pretty sure you can throw a stick and hit five supermodels in Brazil, so there must be more...

She's really freakin' involved.

Flavia is a lawyer specializing in social work for the poor in her country.

Someone who is passionate about helping others is objectively awesome, and that's objectively sexy. 

Eike Batista has power and money to be with any woman in the world, but he's with Flavia because she's freakin' AWESOME!

I am taking this road to awesomeness with the heroine of my new romance series, Tied to Him: The Billionaire's Beck and Call, Book 3: Rose Turner. She's a former foster kid now deeply involved in serving the homeless kids in her community.

A big heart beats a boob job any day of the week!


Think about what makes YOU awesome, and work on that talent, that passion, or that trait that makes you special.

I've watched the movie Pretty Woman more times than is probably healthy, and the final scene sums up my point very well. Skip to minute 5:00 and go from there...



Alpha Male: "So, like... what happens after I climb up this pidgeon-crap-covered fire escape and save you?"


Awesome Heroine: "I save you right back. Duh. I mean, I am freaking awesome."

And they lived happily ever after.



My husband and I are partners, equals, and even though he's sexy and smart and funny, I save him right back every day by being just as awesome. 

What do you bring to the table? What makes YOU awesome and an irresistible, can't-live-without partner?

When you find that gem within yourself, the world is your oyster. You are special, worthy of a hot love affair with an equally special man, and By Gawd, he won't be able to tear himself away.

Save him right back, and he'll be yours forever.


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So these are the kinds of posts I've been wanting to bring you forever, and I'm thrilled to have the patience to finally do it! 

Tell me, what do you think makes an awesome partner? What do you cherish in the people who save YOU? 

I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments!


Tuesday, May 7, 2013

More Blogging, More Love!

Hey, my sexy readers!

These past couple of weeks I've been thinking a lot about doing what I've always wanted with this blog: bringing YOU more romance, more sexy fun, and most importantly, getting to know you better each day.

So why the heck haven't I been doing it?

Welp... it's a long story, but the short version is, I just realized I have ADHD! Turns out, most writers and creative types do.

Go figure.

(The crazy eyes in the writer pin up over here are all too accurate...)

But the beautiful thing about knowing is that now I'm working on the troublesome bits (not blogging, being disorganized, and releasing stories later than I promise), and harnessing the good (having an awesome, fast, sexy brain!).

Yes, Delilah's on drugs to help her focus, and she doesn't care who knows it!

But the part that's awesome for YOU, my darling readers is that you can not only expect more consistency from me in terms of accurate release dates (Thank God, Delilah. I Mean, Seriously...) BUT now I am going to bring you more.

More what, you ask?

MORE LOVE! MORE FUN! MORE SEXY BITS for your everyday life!

But in order to do it, I need some help from you!

I want to hear YOUR love stories! 

Yep, that's right. I want to hear your anecdotes about the loves of your life, whether it's that little thing your partner does that always gives you the warm-and-fuzzies, or something you do for someone else, I want to hear about it.

Each week I want to feature one of YOUR real life love stories, so please email me at Delilah Fawkes at Gmail dot com if you've got a tale to share.

The thing that makes this job so special is learning more about you and bringing you those moments in your day where you can lean back, sigh, and remember that love exists and happily ever afters happen every day.

So share your happilies with me, and add to the love!

What made you feel loved this week? Share in the comments below!

More coming soon on this blog, so stay tuned...

Sunday, April 21, 2013

TIED TO HIM: The Billionaire's Beck and Call, Book 3, COMING SOON!

EEEEEEK!

I have the best job in the world :).

I just finished a book that I absolutely loved writing, and now I get to fall in love all over again with this third book in The Billionaire's Beck and Call Series.

Here's the description of Tied to Him: The Billionaire's Beck and Call, Book 3!



Jackson Pierce is a man with a secret…

Becoming Governor isn't in the cards for billionaire and former D.A. Jackson Pierce unless he can squelch the unsavory rumors flying around. He's not ashamed of his bad boy past being a dominant at a BDSM club, but he knows the revelation could ruin his political career before it even begins.

He's skeptical of his campaign advisor's idea--find a do-gooder wife to give him a more respectable image--until he meets Rose Turner, a former foster kid now working in a local community center. Compassionate, feisty and sharing his passion for helping troubled youth, she's perfect for his needs. But as they get to know one another, he finds his feelings for her growing all too real. 

Rose Turner can’t take another heartbreak, not after being abandoned by everyone she ever loved. When she accepts Jackson’s proposal, she vows to keep her distance, but the more she gets to know this amazing man, the more she wants to let him in. But trust doesn’t come easy—if he wants it, he’ll have to earn it.

As the two draw closer, threats begin rolling in: if Jackson doesn’t back out of the race, both Rose and the kids she cares for are in danger, but if he does, he won’t be able to push the educational reform the community so desperately needs.

With everything on the line, he must make an impossible decision between what’s right and what’s necessary. What’s a man of principle to do when everything he believes in falls apart?


The first part of this series is coming soon! Stay tuned to this blog or sign up for my newsletter to be the first to know when it's available :).

***Also, anyone who signs up for my newsletter gets a FREE single title Delilah Fawkes e-book! All you have to do is sign up, and you'll get an email with the details.

Happy reading!

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

BOUND TO HIM, PART 5 (The Final Chapter!) is Live!

BOUND TO HIM, PART 5: THE BILLIONAIRE'S BECK AND CALL is now LIVE in the following stores:


Amazon
Barnes and Noble
Kobo


The Description:

The race is on to save Alex's life...
Lucy Willcox and Maxwell Pierce make a deal with the devil. 

Max wagers that he can beat the gangster Dmitry's best driver in a race if he'll agree to these terms: If he wins, Alex's debt will be forgiven and his life spared. But if Max loses, Dmitry will win his Lamborghini, Max's prize possession, worth twice what the mobster says they owe.

They have one week to prepare for what's ahead. One week before the life or death race that will change everything. But that crucial week is not without its distractions. Tension reaches the breaking point between Max and his brother, Jackson, and Isabeau catches her husband Chase keeping secrets. 

Can the group come together to win Alex's freedom, or will everything Lucy and Isabeau hold dear come crashing down around them?

This 11,000 word story is the thrilling conclusion of BOUND TO HIM, the sequel to the best-selling series by Delilah Fawkes, The Billionaire's Beck and Call.


You don't want to miss it!

Here's a sneak peak...

We got into the Lamborghini, and I trembled against the leather seats, adrenaline already coursing through my veins, making me feel like I'd downed three cups of espresso and an Adderall. 

It was time to save Alex.

The doors slid shut beside me, and I breathed deeply, trying to calm my jangling nerves. Mr. Pierce's hand on my thigh was a warm comfort. 

"Put the music on," he rasped. 

I did as I was told, and soon the thumping beats of Adder Stone pulsed through the car, invading our senses. 

I felt alive, more alive than ever before, feeling the rumbling of the engine coursing through the frame, through my seat and onto me, into me, making me part of this, part of the car, part of the race, part of this night--the most important of my life.

My brother's face floated before me, but this time, instead of seeing him bruised and broken, I saw him as I remembered him from our childhood, his strawberry blonde hair buzzed short, a grin on his face at once mischievous and so sweet it could break your heart. 

Alex...


This is the final chapter of THE BILLIONAIRE'S BECK AND CALL, BOOK 2. 

Stay tuned for information on TIED TO HIM: THE BILLIONAIRE'S BECK AND CALL, BOOK 3, COMING SOON!


Happy Reading, my darlings :)!

Monday, April 8, 2013

Bound to Him, Part 5 (the final installment!) Coming This Week!

And in the meantime, let me leave you with a little of what I've been researching...



CAR PORN!


I didn't realize how much I love Lamborghini's before I started this book, and now?  *drools* Too bad no one aside from Maxwell Pierce can afford them ;). Haha!

But every time I look at one, I hear this music in my head:




I kind of want to have sex with this car. Is that weird?

....


...

..

Probably.


ANYWAY! The last part of Bound To Him is coming THIS WEEK! 

In the meantime, happy reading, my lovely fans ;).

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

BOUND TO HIM, PART 4: THE BILLIONAIRE'S BECK AND CALL is Now Live!

Woo hoo!

I'm happy to announce that Bound to Him, Part 4 is now live in the following stores:

Amazon
Barnes and Noble
Kobo


The Description:


Time is running out for Lucy to save her brother…

When Maxwell Pierce catches Lucy in a lie, he makes her tell him exactly what’s going on with her brother, Alex, now lying bruised and beaten in the prison hospital. She spills the truth, and he forces her to take him with her to see Alex and think about their next move.

When Isabeau and Chase show up, they come together in a scheme to pay Dmitry off. But when he asks for a more money, they know they’re in serious trouble. How do you get a gangster off your back when he keeps asking for more?

And a sizzling sneak peak!

“What can I do for you tonight, my sweet girl?”

I looked up into those piercing blue eyes. He was so close—so very close—and his eyes were soft tonight, the startling blue holding a look that felt like a promise. He wanted to care for me. He wanted to comfort me if that’s what I needed. He wanted to be here for me now.

I tilted my chin up and kissed his lips, loving the way he sighed into me. Our tongues brushed, and I ran my hand through his dark hair. It was still wet from his evening shower, and he tasted of mint. I kissed him harder, moaning now, unable to help myself, despite the knot of worry in my stomach. He was exactly what I wanted. What I needed. God, but I couldn’t get enough of this man.

I felt him stir beneath me and smiled. I brushed the curl from his forehead tenderly, wondering what he wanted, too.

“Tell me, Lucy. How can I make you feel good tonight?”

I wrapped my arms around him, holding him close.

“Take me away,” I said. “I want you to distract me from what we’ve got to do tomorrow. Please… just take me away, Master.”

He gazed into my eyes, then, and for a moment, I felt like he was looking inside of me, trying to read my thoughts. Finally, his lips twitched into that half-grin that I loved so much.

“As you wish.”

He stood, picking me up with him. I held on tight, a giddiness filling me as he held me, like it was nothing. He placed me gently on the comforter, my head resting on the luxurious pillow. He leaned over, placing an excruciatingly soft kiss on my mouth, then pulled away. I arched my back, trying to follow him, but he pressed me down with a hand on my chest.

“Lie back, little one. Lie back and close your eyes…”




Eeek! I'm so excited to share this one with you :). The next installment will be the LAST, and it will be out next week. 

Happy reading, my darlings!